July 15, 2009
July 14, 2009
Aristotle's insight on avoiding excess and aiming for the intermediate is useful for solution-focused change and positive psychology
July 13, 2009
When DO solution focused coaches and therapists offer direct tips and advice?
SF-coaches, counselors and therapists acknowledge what clients bring to the conversation and generally avoid interfering with the clients’ frame of reference as much as they can. They use questions to help clients define their desired situations and find their own solutions. In other words, it leads to what I have dubbed self-found internal solutions. The main advantages of a process leading to self-found internal solutions are: 1) the individual trusts these solutions, 2) knows how to apply them, 3) knows they're relevant for him, and 4) knows he has the skills required to apply them; furthermore, 5) he has identified them himself and 6) is most likely to be committed to trying them out; my prediction would be that 7) they are most durable, too. (Also view this video).
My question today is: What are the exceptions to this principle? When do you as a solution-focused coach offer direct advice? When does this work? In which circumstances is there in your view a good reason for doing this?
July 12, 2009
Building solution-focused skills through deliberate practice of techniques like scaling questions, desired situation questions and miracle questions
In my mind I often compare building solution focused skills with learning to play a musical instrument. This comparison may provide a useful clue about how to become better at practicing the solution-focused approach. As I have written about many times before, researcher Anders Ericsson and his colleagues has found evidence of how people can become expert instrumentalists (and experts in many other fields for that matter). The way this is done is through a process called deliberate practice. Author Geoff Colvin explains that deliberate practice can be described by these five characteristics: 1) It's designed specifically to improve performance, 2) It can be repeated a lot, 3) Feedback on results is continuously available, 4) It's highly demanding mentally, 5) It isn't necessarily much fun. Deliberate practice is hard and not particularly enjoyable because it means you are focusing on improving areas in your performance that are not satisfactory. Thus, it stretches you. If you'll be able to do deliberate practice, you'll benefit by becoming better.
One way of practicing solution-focused skills, which I have found very useful myself, is to take a good book (like Becoming solution-focused in brief therapy, Interviewing for solutions, and Words were originally magic) and search for the dialogues (if you read Dutch you may read one of the many Dutch dialogues we have written in our books and on our sites). Then read those dialogues very slowly. What I would do is read what the client said and cover with a piece of paper what the SF practitioner said. Only after I had thought of how I would reply how the practitioner could respond I would move the paper down a bit to read what the practitioner had actually said. At first this was often a sobering experience. I found it very hard to come up with good responses and was surprised by how effective the responses that were written down in the book were. But practice improves and I became better?
What do you think? How can deliberate practice help to build solution-focused skills?
July 11, 2009
July 10, 2009
When did the potential of the solution-focused approach first hit you?
Jong and Insoo Kim Berg. "Wait a minute", I thought to myself, "Wasn't that about this solution-focused approach I heard about recently?" Indeed, my colleague Gwenda Schlundt Bodien had recently come across the approach and had mentioned it once to me. But somehow it did not make too much of an impression to me, then. In fact, I thought it sounded simple and superficial. Furthermore: nothing new, I was sure. So there I was in the bookstore. Since I could not find any other interesting book, I thought I'd give Interviewing for solutions a try. I bought it and sat down somewhere for a cup of coffee. I took the book and thought I'd read a page or two, out of curiosity. I started reading and on the first and second page I recognized bits of what I'd heard about the approach. I thought it did sound interesting and friendly. I read it bit more. I read about a woman, Rosie which was interviewed by a group of students asking her al kinds of questions. These questions sounded very sensible to me. Reading further, I wondered what the authors would have to say about these very resonable questions. Nothing wrong with them, I thought. Then, the authors started to explain how all of the questions were about problems, mistakes, feelings, causes and implied solutions. Next came some explanation about the solution-focused approach and the authors showed how the interview might have been approached differently. Then and there the potential of the solution-focused approach hit me at once. I remember thinking how this was exactly what I had been searching for for some time and I realized I was going to do this and be busy with it for many, many years. And so it went. July 9, 2009
$20 bill lying on the sidewalk
Jeffrey Pfeffer, professor of organizational behavior at Stanford’s Graduate School of Business and author of What Were They Thinking? Unconventional Wisdom About Management has written a new article:
July 8, 2009
Pattern detection
"Patterns are everything to us. We hunger for them. We revel in them. They are the basis for art, literature, music and much more in our lives. But a percepetual system that is so geared to wrestling patterns out of complex arrays of simuli is bound to produce some false positives. [...] Over time, natural selection probably favored perceptual systems and pattern detectors that were hyperactive enough to make their share of Type I errors [false positives]. In a perilous world, Type I errors tend to be less costly. And one of natural selections mottos has always been, "Better deluded than dead.""~ Hank Davis in Caveman logic
July 7, 2009
How effective are threats?
Sometime ago I asked this question: What research is there on how to lead people effectively? I did get some responses but I would like to get a lot more. In the meantime, I have begun to think there is not a lot of evidence on this. Still there is some. In 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot by Richard Wiseman I read about research by Jonathan Freedman. It is old study published in 1965 (Journal of Experimental Social Psychology. Vol 1(2), 1965, 145-155.) and done with children, so not exactly in an organizational setting. Still, I think it implies something interesting for how to lead people. It examines the question what the effects of threading children is when you want to keep them from doing something. Here is a summary of the paper: Long-term behavioral effects of cognitive dissonance.To investigate whether or not the arousal of cognitive dissonance can produce long-term behavioral effects, children were told not to play with a very desirable toy under high or low threat, and were left alone with the toy. Those who did not play with it were given a 2nd opportunity to play with the toy several weeks later, with the original threat removed. The prediction was that those subjects who had resisted temptation under mild threat would be less likely to play with the toy in this 2nd session than would those who had resisted under severe threat. The results supported this prediction.
Richard Wiseman summarizes the conclusions as follows:
"Threat works well in the short term, but can actually prove counter-productive over longer periods of time. By pointing out all the terrible things that will happen if your child follows a course of action, you may be making that activity more attractive in their minds."
Comments and further references are welcome.
July 6, 2009
Evidence for the motivational impact of the perspective change question
In the post Perspective change I described a simple way to help clients visualize the desired situation from a third person perspective. With this technique you ask in essence: ”How will other people notice things will have become better?" An example: "How will the customer notice our service orientation will have improved?" My experience is that this type of question, which I dubbed the perspective change question helps clients to get a broader perspective on themselves and their situation so that they can develop clearer goals.Here is the full article: Seeing Future Success: Does Imagery Perspective Influence Achievement Motivation?
July 5, 2009
Writing provides a solution-based approach
"From a psychological perspective, talking and writing are very different. Talking can often be somewhat unstructured, disorganized, even chaotic. In contrast, writing encourages the creation of a story line and structure that help people make sense of what has happened and work towards a solution. In short, talking can add to a sense of confusion while writing provides a more systematic, and solution-based, approach."July 4, 2009
Quote by Lao Tzu
"To lead people walk behind them."
~Lao Tzu, ancient Chinese philosopher, central figure in Taoism, lived in the 6th century BC.
July 3, 2009
Quote Richard Wiseman
"Fantasizing about heaven on earth may put a smile on your face but is unlikely to help transform your dreams into reality."What I like about this quote is that it warns against thinking about goals in terms of ideal situations, just like I do in this article: Solution-Focused Scaling Questions.
When performance-related pay backfires
"Performance-related pay often does not encourage people to work harder and sometimes has the opposite effect, according to new research due to be unveiled at the London School of Economics and Political Science. An analysis of 51 separate experimental studies of financial incentives in employment relations found overwhelming evidence that these incentives may reduce an employee's natural inclination to complete a task and derive pleasure from doing so. 'We find that financial incentives may indeed reduce intrinsic motivation and diminish ethical or other reasons for complying with workplace social norms such as fairness. As a consequence, the provision of incentives can result in a negative impact on overall performance,' said Dr Bernd Irlenbusch from the LSE's Department of Management."July 1, 2009
What scientific articles deserve a larger audience?
After my book-question of last week, I'd now like to ask you something about scientific articles. My question is: what are the 2 or 3 scientific articles which have appeared in a peer reviewed journal you consider so important that they deserve a larger audience? It would be great if you could explain your choice too. What is it about those articles that makes them so great and important? How have they influenced your thinking and the way you approach your work? Hope to hear from you and, of course, after some time I'll share my list. June 30, 2009
Neil deGrasse Tyson on The Colbert Report
June 29, 2009
Step our of the Moral Matrix
June 28, 2009
What is an effective way of dealing with persisting primitive thinking in this modern world?
There is a new book out by University of Guelph evolutionary psychologist Hank Davis with the title Caveman Logic: The Persistence of Primitive Thinking in a Modern World. Here is amazon.com's product description:We see the face of the Virgin Mary staring up at us from a grilled cheese sandwich and sell the uneaten portion of our meal for $37,000 on eBay. While science offers a wealth of rational explanations for natural phenomena, we often prefer to embrace the fantasies that reassured our distant ancestors. And we'll even go to war to protect our delusions against those who do not share them. These are examples of what evolutionary psychologist Hank Davis calls 'Caveman Logic'. Although some examples are funny, the condition itself is no laughing matter. In this engagingly written book, Davis encourages us to transcend the mental default settings and tribal loyalties that worked well for our ancestors back in the Pleistocene age. Davis laments a modern world in which more people believe in ESP, ghosts, and angels than in evolution. Superstition and religion get particularly critical treatment, although Davis argues that religion, itself, is not the problem but 'an inevitable by-product of how our minds misperform'. Davis argues, 'It's time to move beyond the one-size-fits-all, safety and comfort-oriented settings that got our ancestors through the terrifying Pleistocene night'. In contrast, Davis advocates a world in which 'Spirituality' is viewed as a dangerous rather than an admirable quality, and suggests ways in which we can overcome our innate predisposition toward irrationality. He concludes by pointing out that 'biology is not destiny'. Just as some of us succeed in watching our diets, resisting violent impulses, and engaging in unselfish behavior, we can learn to use critical thinking and the insights of science to guide individual effort and social action in the service of our whole species.
So, What are your ideas? What approach for dealing with persisting primitive thinking in this modern world do you prefer? Do you prefer a direct, well-argued, provocative yet polite approach of people like Richard Dawkins, Daniel Dennett? Or do you prefer a challenging debunking approach as shown by people like Michael Shermer, Derren Brown, James Randi and QualiaSoup? Or do you prefer a satirical approach as followed by people like Edward Current and the Monty Python team? Or is there a way of leading by example? Or is it better to leave it alone and not discuss this at all in order to respect whatever people believe to be true or just in order to mind your own business? And is it important at all to get rid of primitive thinking at all or is usually harmless? What are your ideas?


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